You are trying not to be rude, but by giving hints that may seem to you like obvious "shut up", for him he may seem them as "wow this person isn't running to the hills, imma go read the encyclopedia to this person, I've prepped a 5 hour monologue last night just for this moment" :) So why do you have conversations with this guy, he maybe has the opinion that you are interested in what he has to say or else you would just leave if you didn't like it. Then he walked away, his feelings hurt and seemingly offended because I 'had nothing to say'. Sidenote: I used to know this crazy New Yorker who talked so fast I couldn't get a word in edgewise because he never stopped. One trick I've found to work is a quick "Let me call you back real quick I need to _ right now" and just 'click' obviously you have to power to walk away whenever you get tired of it. Obviously this person has more to say than you do. Make them know that if they are going to call you, you will talk when you want to talk (even if you have to bulldoze you're way into the conversation) and borderline hang up on them whenever you want. They might take it personally at first but you just have to be comfortable with that. You just have to be more cold with them, it's not rude if they do the same thing to you. It's a really selfish attitude, but not worth completely cutting this person out of your life. but you know what else is rude? Talking someones ears off and not letting them get a word in edgewise and not letting them end the conversation. I know it is rude to cut them off and interject or bail out on them. You have to be really assertive with these types of people. Moderators have full discretion in making decisions they deem to be in the best interest of the subreddit. Do not submit product, app, social media, medium, channel, or any other promotional content in the sub.No sexist, demeaning, objectifying language Please use dedicated subs such as /r/dating_advice or /r/relationshipsĤ.Matters primarily relating to mental health and illness (medications, therapy, anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, etc) should be posted in a topic-specific subreddit: /r/depression, /r/anxiety, /r/socialanxiety, /r/selfesteem, /r/suicidewatch, etc. We are not a mental health support sub.All posts must directly relate to the acquisition and/or application of social skills Posts and comments should be made in good faith.Ģ.Rediquette and conduct in accord with the site-wide Reddit Content Policy is expected and a requirement of participation.Official /r/socialskills Discord server! Rules Share your favorite social skills tips, ask for advice, or offer encouragement to others on their social skills journey.
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